business.
It was absolutely terrifying. What I wasn't expecting was to find out
that a decade on, at times, it still is.
Every small business owner gets The Fear - it's part of the deal. It's
hardly surprising when you think of the risks we take, the burdens we
shoulder.
I left behind a good job, a great salary and all sorts of perks and
benefits, not least the peace of mind that every month the bills would
be paid. But job security wasn't enough to fulfil me.
I wanted more - I wanted to make a great living doing work I loved;
work that meant something to me; work that did good in the world; work
that was an expression of my authentic self. I love coaching and
writing, and I love helping others make a great living doing work they
love. That was, and remains, my purpose, my guiding light - what I
think of as my North Star.
My North Star guides me whatever's going on. It's an unshakeable,
immovable source of guidance, a trusted point from which I can always
navigate, no matter what's going on. It is the thing that drives me,
and my business and makes it all worthwhile. It gives me courage -
something all small business owners need in spades.
My father - owner of his own business, as was his father before him -
gave me the greatest advice on that day ten years ago when I started
out. He said: "Once you've worked for yourself you'll never go back to
having a job again. When it's going well, there's nothing better in
the world. But let me warn you - you will be awake at 4am worrying
about where the next client is coming from. And when it's bad, it's
terrible, because no-one else can shoulder the burden for you, it's
yours alone.
So be sure you know why you're doing it."
Boy was he right! When it's going well, when there are clients lined
up and the words are flowing onto the page, it's wonderful. I feel
privileged and honoured to do the work I do. It's hard work, but it's
not as hard as dragging yourself into a job you hate every day.
When it's not going so well, running your own business is the
loneliest job in the world. There's no-one to share it with, no-one
else really understands, and even if they do, they can't really help
you. They can pour you another drink and listen while you sob about
how hard it all is, but the buck stops with you, and you know it. No-
one can make it work but you, and that's why you get The Fear.
When The Fear strikes, you need passion and purpose
That's why it's SO important to know WHY you do what you do. When
there's no work lined up and you have no idea what to do about it
that's when you need your passion - the core of your brand - most.
The Fear whispers that it's all for nothing; that it's going to fail;
that it's all hopeless. What's the point? you ask yourself. And that's
the question at the core of your brand and at the bottom of it all -
what IS the bloody point?
The Fear doesn't care about KPIs
I had The Fear last weekend: a full on case of the wobbles, the 'what
the heck am I doing's. Self-doubt filled my mind at night and endless
lists of all the things I need to do filled my days. I have a great
business coach and all sorts of plans and strategies, but they're
nothing in the face of The Fear. When it strikes there is no logic, no
list, no KPI in the world that can pacify it. The only thing that can
counteract fear is love - cheesy I know - and in this case it's your
love for what you do that counts.
Your North Star is the reason why you do it.
That thing that you do - that you love, that makes your heart sing,
that you do in a way that no-one else does it - whatever it may be -
that's what makes it all worthwhile. That's your North Star.
Whether it's writing and coaching or cooking or gardening or
consulting or fixing people's gadgets or teaching people how to use
social media or baking artisan bread; it doesn't matter what it is, as
long as it's meaningful and feels like you have a purpose in life.
That's what gives you the sense of fulfilment no job ever could -
because it comes from the heart. And that's why it must be at the
heart of your brand. It's central, critical, literally vital to what
you do.
What to do when The Fear strikes
When you get The Fear, there are two things you must do. The first is
to be very, very kind and gentle with yourself; don't give yourself a
hard time, that's counterproductive. Treat yourself as you would a
terrified child learning to swim - reassuring them that everything's
going to be all right and they can do it.
The second is to look to your North Star for direction - remember why
you do what you do, your sense of purpose, of passion and mission in
the world. Tune into that part of your soul that remembers why you
took this hard, winding, uphill road towards success, and listen to
it. Because when you go back to that unshakeable truth, that immovable
point of guidance, suddenly you will know what to do. You might not
know everything you need to do, but the next step will become clear, I
promise.
Small steps in the right direction
Then, slowly, get up off the floor, take a deep breath, and get back
to it. It doesn't matter what you do, just do something related to
your North Star, something that's heading in the right direction.
Slowly but surely (sometimes quickly and surprisingly) you'll get back
in the flow and the right clients will be drawn to you.
You'll thrive again, and The Fear will be pacified, until the next
time.
And next time it strikes, you'll know how to greet it, and it won't be
quite so terrifying.
So here's the big question: Do you know what your North Star is?
Do you know exactly what it is that you're passionate about in your
business, what it is that drives you, gives your work meaning, gives
you that magical sense of fulfilment?
If you want a clear, shining North Star that provides your brand with
an unshakable source of guidance, then coaching with the Authentic
Branding Company will help.
I'm Susi Jacobs of The Authentic Branding Company. Get in touch today
to book a free, no-obligation call to discuss how I can help you get
crystal clear on what your business is about, so you can grow it to
greater success. Email susi@authenticbranding.co.uk or visit
http://www.theauthenticbrandingcompany.co.uk today!
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