Monday, 17 March 2014

What Really Happened To Boys?

Four years ago, psychologist Leonard Sax (MD, PhD)

wrote a well-received book titled “Boys Adrift.” The

doctor tried to answer the question, why have so many

young males fallen into passivity and indifference?

Dr. Sax had heard more and more parents complain that

their boys stayed indoors most of the time, spent hours

on video games, and in general seemed to lack the

confidence and esprit de corps that had characterized

boys throughout history.



“Something scary is happening to boys today,” Sax

concluded. “From kindergarten to college, American boys

are, on average, less resilient and less ambitious than

they were a mere twenty years ago. The gender gap in

college attendance and graduation rates has widened

dramatically.”

The book’s full title is, “Boys Adrift: The Five

Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated

Boys and Underachieving Young Men.” Sax lists the five

factors right on the cover: “video games, teaching

methods, prescription drugs, environmental toxins,

devaluation of masculinity.”

It’s worrisome that he seems to like them all. That

might be a clue that he has not solved this mystery.

Indeed, let’s consider the possibility that none of

these theories is the deep answer we want. Let’s start

from scratch and consider the things we know for sure.

First of all, critics have often noted that schools

seem organized more for girls than for boys. Most boys

do not want to be confined to a desk; they would rather

be outside playing and competing. Second, not only are

boys kept passively inside, they are forced to deal

almost the entire day with reading, writing, and

arithmetic, probably not their own first choices.

But these factors are historically common. Boys have

always been restless at their desks. They have often

stared out the window and daydreamed. Furthermore, in

many other cultures and ages, discipline was greater;

serious academic work was demanded. So it’s not as if

there were some golden age when boys had it better. No,

they have it worse today, and for reasons that are new.

We are now arriving at the heart of darkness.

Consider that all school activity revolves around two

basic skills, reading and arithmetic. Students spend a

lot of each day on these and must learn them in order

to advance to any other subjects. Failure in these two

subjects virtually guarantees failure in all subjects,

and in all of life.

Perversely, our public schools, for more than 50 years,

have used dysfunctional methods that virtually

guarantee failure for the ordinary boy (that is, a boy

who will struggle to a degree but finally says, screw

this.)

To learn to read, he is told he must memorize English

words as graphic designs. He fails for all the reasons

that Rudolf Flesch explained in his 1955 bestseller,

“Why Johnny Can’t Read.” Almost as devastating, the boy

must learn arithmetic using one of the dozen curricula

collectively called Reform Math. These are

exceptionally cumbersome and frustrating for children,

as has been amply documented.

Now imagine a boy, restless and impatient, locked in a

situation he doesn’t really like, engaged in activities

he might prefer to avoid. He senses that instruction is

gratuitously difficult and tedious. Increasingly, he

rebels. Already he glimpses a future hopeless and

horrible, where he will never be allowed to succeed.

He comes to school every day depressed and is told to

memorize sight-words, which is very difficult to do. If

he actually does master 100, the next 100 will

overwhelm his brain. Simultaneously, he is made to

learn arithmetic in ways that he can’t understand. Even

his parents can’t explain to him the techniques he is

supposed to learn.

So every day, every week, every month, the ordinary boy

stares at a sign flashing in the air: ACCESS: DENIED.

Whatever it is he is supposed to do, he can’t do it. He

wants to, he really, really wants to. What else does a

boy have but cockiness and confidence? Boys rule! Or

they once did. But their sense of being master of any

situation is no match for the dark genius of our

Education Establishment.

He becomes sullen, then angry. He hears his parents

whispering about him. He goes to conferences where his

teacher talks about remediation and dyslexia. He’s told

he has ADHD. He might need Ritalin.

Imagine when he is seven and failing. Imagine when he

is eight and still failing. Imagine when he is nine and

more blatantly failing. Imagine how many discussions he

has had with his teacher and parents about his

inability to do the simplest things. Imagine the

interior collapse of confidence. If his parents and all

adults in his world think, to put it bluntly, that he

is retarded, then he must be.

The signs flash everywhere: SUCCESS: IMPOSSIBLE.

DREAMS: CRUSHED.

Dr. Sax put a lot of emphasis on video games but

perhaps he has it backwards. Consider that the school

world makes boys feel helpless. But the virtual world

lets many boys be the smart, extremely capable people

they actually are. Which world would you choose to

remain in all day?

Dr. Sax puts a lot of emphasis on early literacy

instruction, as if this is a strain. Why would it be a

strain if boys actually did learn to read? Reading is

fun. It’s the con that is the strain. It’s adults

pretending to teach children to read but not letting

them learn to read that is the killer.

Dr. Sax speaks of masculinity being undervalued. Maybe

it’s more directly a case of masculinity hemmed in and,

as the school years pass, neutralized.

Finally. one can never escape the impression that there

is premeditation in all of this. Does the Education

Establishment use these methods to induce a loss of

confidence? Then they are evil people. If they don’t

know any better, then they are incompetent people.

Bruce Deitrick Price is an author and education

reformer. He deconstructs education theories and

methods on his site Improve-Education.org.

For more on bad MATH instruction, see "Innumeracy by

Design"  (on this site).

For more on bad READING instruction, see "Imagine

making children illiterate"  (on this site).

Improve-Education.org has a dozen articles about

reading. "Leading Boys To Reading" is especially

appropriate.

Article Source:

http://www.edarticle.com/articles/42801/what-really-

happened-to-boys.php

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